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On the strange gift of starting over at fifty
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On the strange gift of starting over at fifty

Nobody tells you that the thing you thought was an ending might be the most interesting beginning of your life. I've been thinking about that a lot lately.

September 10, 20266 min read
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What twenty years in a classroom taught me about listening

Teaching

What twenty years in a classroom taught me about listening

My students taught me far more than I ever taught them. The most important lesson had nothing to do with literature.

August 28, 20265 min read
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The books that changed me (and the ones I wish I'd read sooner)

Reading

The books that changed me (and the ones I wish I'd read sooner)

A reading life is a kind of autobiography. Here are the books that wrote mine.

August 14, 20267 min read
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Why I stopped apologizing for how long it took

Writing

Why I stopped apologizing for how long it took

My first book came out when I was fifty-two. I used to feel embarrassed about that. I don't anymore.

July 30, 20264 min read
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A letter to my daughter on her fortieth birthday

Family

A letter to my daughter on her fortieth birthday

You are exactly where you are supposed to be. Even when it doesn't feel that way. Especially then.

July 12, 20265 min read
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The quiet practice of morning pages

Writing

The quiet practice of morning pages

Three pages, longhand, every morning before the world gets loud. It sounds small. It changed everything.

June 25, 20264 min read
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Faith, doubt, and the courage to hold both

Faith

Faith, doubt, and the courage to hold both

I've never found faith and doubt to be opposites. They've always felt more like companions on a long walk.

June 8, 20266 min read
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Carla Rae

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